Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Gimime 30





The other night I was laying in bed, restless as always, and got to thinking about life, surprise surprise...

When I'm forced to face certain challenges in my life, I've always found a way to come out on the other side either benefiting from my move or remaining unscathed. For those who don't know, I'm a darn good domino player. I wasn't always good, but I got there eventually. Trial and Error.

Just like in life, the beginner or naive individual always goes for fast and easy money, that instant gratification.
Lesson learned : not all money is good money.

After getting house after house scored on me, and after learning lesson after lesson, I've come to grasp the reality of being more strategic with my moves, my actions, myself.

Not only did I take a few good steps back to observe my life (i.e. the board), I learned to be very aware of what's around me (what's on the board), the actions of others (the plays your opponents make), and my potential outcome (scorin that rare but famous 30 on dem hoes, lol).

But most importantly I learned to always put me first, because without me, I won't be able to do for anyone else (such as family, friends, significant other, or domino partner) no matter how much I want to. So if I see that I won't quite benefit from anything around me, I always take care of me. What most of my opponents learn quickly about me is I always, and let me repeat this, always, keep domino once I have it.

Life is like a game of dominos: you'll always start with big 6, but everything after that- your actions, others actions, and the inevitable knocks - will play out according to what you do and how you do it.

Therefore, live freely but cautiously and if you're lucky, you'll hit that 30 on dem hoes.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Digital Dependency: Guilty or Innocent?

Times are a-changing, no one can deny that. Within the past 21 years of my life I've seen everything from beepers, two-ways, cell phones with the plain green backlight, and trust me if you had one of the above, you thought you were da shit.

Now I have a cell phone that's beyond anything I could ever imagine 10 years ago. I can have up to TEN emails linked to it, has my facebook chat, AIM, blackberry messenger, text messags, web browser, AND last but not least serves its original purpose of being a phone to actually place calls. Who woulda thought?

I'll be the first to admit I've become entirely too dependent on my Blackberry. When I say dependent, I'm sayin: replace it same day if it's broken, leaving it within ear shot while in the shower, chargers at work, car, and the house. It's a sickness, I know. I think what helps me cope with my madness is that I'm not the only crackberry addict in this world. So for those still trying to deny their addiction, it's okay, we loves ya. #teamblackberry

c'est moi


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