Monday, October 25, 2010
Je L'adore
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - Bob Marley
Friday, October 22, 2010
Social Networking and Relationships
Ever since the birth of social networking sites, relationships more often than none have been deteriorating faster than ever.
These sites such as Facebook and Twitter show every single move you make, and the private inbox? Let's not even go there.
I've been put in a few different situations with my past relationships, each with a different outcome.
I had one relationship where we were active on 2 different networks. The problems it caused? Slim to none, if that.
I had another relationship where we were both active on 2 out of the 3 same social networking sites. Did we have problems? shiiiiiit, did we NOT have problems?
In today's society, a lot of people are just straight up trifling. The days of gentlemen and ladies with respect are out the window, and the uprising of side-pieces, jump off's, and booty calls are at an all time high. For the simple reason that these hoes (both men and women can be hoes) just don't care.
What you won't do, someone else will, and they know it too.
So now at a fork in the road, if you're both active on the same networks, are you two friends/following one another? If not, what is the reasoning? Elimination of plausible drama? Your own virtual space without the hassle of 21 questions? The security of having what you do be private just in case you slip up via the world wide web?
Is it better to fully walk by faith and not by sight? Or would you rather be able to see everything for what it is, whether good bad or ugly and cut your losses sooner than you would have if you had not known, because remember, everything done in the dark, eventually comes to light.
I've heard opinions everywhere from Facebook ruins relationships, to individuals in relationships should not even be on a social networking site out of respect for their relationship. Why? Because opportunity only knocks once, but temptation stays leaning on the doorbell.
Trust is imperative for any relationship, and if anyone is given the reason not to trust.. the relationship will soon be approaching its expiration date. One really has to ask themselves, aside from the drama caused from the social networking sites, how is the relationship? We've got to take ourselves back, back to the days prior to cell phones, facbeook, myspace, and twitter and see if the problems truly lie within these sites or are they simply providing fuel for the already burning fire.
When it comes to love; Socially: To Friend or Not To Friend? THAT is the question.
These sites such as Facebook and Twitter show every single move you make, and the private inbox? Let's not even go there.
I've been put in a few different situations with my past relationships, each with a different outcome.
I had one relationship where we were active on 2 different networks. The problems it caused? Slim to none, if that.
I had another relationship where we were both active on 2 out of the 3 same social networking sites. Did we have problems? shiiiiiit, did we NOT have problems?
In today's society, a lot of people are just straight up trifling. The days of gentlemen and ladies with respect are out the window, and the uprising of side-pieces, jump off's, and booty calls are at an all time high. For the simple reason that these hoes (both men and women can be hoes) just don't care.
What you won't do, someone else will, and they know it too.
So now at a fork in the road, if you're both active on the same networks, are you two friends/following one another? If not, what is the reasoning? Elimination of plausible drama? Your own virtual space without the hassle of 21 questions? The security of having what you do be private just in case you slip up via the world wide web?
Is it better to fully walk by faith and not by sight? Or would you rather be able to see everything for what it is, whether good bad or ugly and cut your losses sooner than you would have if you had not known, because remember, everything done in the dark, eventually comes to light.
I've heard opinions everywhere from Facebook ruins relationships, to individuals in relationships should not even be on a social networking site out of respect for their relationship. Why? Because opportunity only knocks once, but temptation stays leaning on the doorbell.
Trust is imperative for any relationship, and if anyone is given the reason not to trust.. the relationship will soon be approaching its expiration date. One really has to ask themselves, aside from the drama caused from the social networking sites, how is the relationship? We've got to take ourselves back, back to the days prior to cell phones, facbeook, myspace, and twitter and see if the problems truly lie within these sites or are they simply providing fuel for the already burning fire.
When it comes to love; Socially: To Friend or Not To Friend? THAT is the question.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
R A N G E R S
3-1... one more game then we're going to the world series babyyyyy.
weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
#Rangers #Swag!
weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
#Rangers #Swag!
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)